It’s interesting. This journey to wealth that I am on.
Interesting because it has not at kept in line with how I thought it would run.
You know, when I began this journey, I was in a very safe environment. I had a corporate job, a beautiful fiancée, a Dalmatian and Mancunian terrier, and two spare rooms in a big house.
It’s funny. We were on a cruise-ship, at the front. It was late at night. The stars sparkled and we made a commitment to go after the dream together. It was a “Titanic Moment.”
For some reason, I thought that it would be a simple journey my partner and I would make together. I’m not exactly sure why she didn’t take the leap with me. I took a look down the line and seen heartache. I seen myself blaming her for not working with me to achieve our dreams.
I soon found out that they were my dreams. Hers were different. I think. I suppose we both went through some emotional times over the last year together. And I suppose we both felt like the other was letting us down in some way.
I made the leap alone. Now I live with my grandparents and use a back room as an office. It’s lovely. But it’s still the grandparents place. Not at all how I envisioned life only a few short months ago.
So why am I telling the world this. Some day. Some day, people are going to be interested in this journey I have taken. They’ll make similar decisions. Decisions to chase the dream. I’ve watched maybe a dozen interviews with successful entrepreneurs on a site called CMYPITCH.COM and I have to admit it helps to keep me sane.
It’s would be easy to look at this specific moment in time and say “What the hell am I doing?” but fortunately I have wisdom imparted with me from these people that have made the journey. Frequent comments from them are statements like “It’s a lonely road being an entrepreneur” “Everyone, even your family, will tell you that your mad”
Luckily I have a supportive family, but when I reminisce about the woman I loved, the woman I was prepared to spend my life. My entire life. I remember watching the cartoon “Up”, holding my woman’s hand and looking into her eyes 40 years from now. It’s a dam shame. It really is.
Luckily I found that she was not as committed as I was to our life together as I was. I was truly lucky to have found out the truth before I got married. How lucky am I?
It’s wise not to rush into things in life. Words only mean so much. Action say the rest.
Anyhow, the learning from all this is that your life will change. Your environment will change. Your time will be spent in a different way. Everything will change. So be careful. Be sure that you want the dream. Because it will more than likely change your entire life before bringing you to your landing zone. Enjoy the journey. And always remember who you are along the way. Don’t forget why you wanted it and why you were willing to sacrifice. Even when times seem low!
Best of luck on your journey. Your adventure.
By the way Know Thyself is a Greek aphorism though to be attributed to at least six ancient Greek sages including Pythagoras, Socrates and Heraclitus. Rest assured the journey you are on is one that other great men have traveled.