For all those out there that are beginning the journey, be sure to get hold of a product called mind map.
Mind Map is a simple way for you to structure your thought processes. To think deeper about subjects and have a visual and written coherent map for analysis, reasoning and final decision making.
It can be best used for prioritization of your actions. In other words, to create maximum productivity from your waking hours while still maintaining a barely sane social / personal life. But I am sure that If I were to ask many entrepreneurs, what social life they had when they were starting, they would consider me lucky or lazy!
Anyway it helps to structure even your personal life. Your personal responsibility to adapt your thinking, to grow your personality, knowledge, wisdom and final character. Do not for a moment think that your character just is!
It is not.
“Your character is the sum of all total decisions you have made in your life; be them foolish or otherwise. Many fail here. They think life owes them and they let life have it with them. They let life create their character. I’ve been there. And trust me, all it owes me, is the fruit of the seed I sow” – Robert Jones 2010
Thoughts like “some people just land on their feet!” and “Some people just have things come their way!.
Or how about why does this shi* always happen to me?
But the truth of the matter is that all that happens occurs because of your decision making. Turn right, turn left, tell them to go f*** themselves and etc. They are all choices.
Some of them don’t have very many bright sides to them. Seems like some decisions just wouldn’t matter either way because they both suck. Right?
But this is usually because you got cornered into the final decision by the choices of the younger you. It’s a domino effect.
Imagine your character to be like a train. And imagine the train tracks to be your life. If you want to go North in life, it’s best you don’t send the train heading South in the opposite direction. Train tracks don’t turn easily. It can take a long time to change the direction of a train until it heads towards the opposite direction. You would have to build the track towards the new direction slowly. You won’t be able to turn the train in the exact direction immediately but if you give it effort and enough time, then you could possible guide the train to hit your target in the North on the nose.
The thoughts you think now and the actions you take after analysis are what guides you to towards your ultimate charecter, vision or destiny. But you must first see the destination so that you can begin building tracks towards it.
So, if this is something that must be done, we best plan it out very carefully. If we do that, then we can have decisions that get easier to make because the choices are weighed by how beneficial they are and which we will enjoy the least. This is very contrary to “shi* , Why do I have to choose between this crap”
If you want to make precision choices in the development of your mind, body and soul, I suggest you take a proactive choice to plan for decisions that offer great results. Use a mind map.
Map your life out rather than be a sail in a wind.

